How Can Men Always Have Enough Money for Pleasures?

Companion 4 Older Executives | 16 Mar 2022 - 08:21
How Can Men Always Have Enough Money for Pleasures?

One of the most frequent objections I hear is that men don’t have enough money to see their companions courtesans, mistresses, as often as they’d like – or can’t afford pleasures at all. But this is not an insurmountable problem. And here is how to surmount it. 

The key to men having enough money for pleasures is motivation, discipline, and managing money.
If you know how much your companion, courtesan, mistress, or paramour charges and want to see her at all or more often, you can plan for it. Planning = saving. You can save a fixed amount every week. It will add up at the end of the month. And that will motivate you more to continue saving, because you’ll see results.

Or you can save a fixed amount every month. The result will be the same, though the method will be less structured. Saving a sum once a week may seem too structured or constrained for some men whom this article may inspire to try it. Putting aside a lump sum once a month may seem a little more liberal, permissive, lighter on the mind. Of course, good savers will be no strangers to either strategy. They’ll find either strategy easy, because that’s exactly how they afford everything. Hence good savers always have enough money for what they want!

Or another way is to save a fixed amount from every pay. This is a good strategy especially for people who work for wages instead of salary. So the bottom line is that when there’s a will there is always a way.

But this article is for poor savers – men who never have enough money for pleasures.
How often would you ideally like to see a companion, courtesan, mistresses, or have the humble massage? Basic math will help. If you’d ideally like it once a month, do the math and plan saving accordingly. It’s no rocket science. It just needs the right strategy of managing money plus a little discipline and motivation.

And the rewards are worth it.
And not only worth it. Regular pleasures are essential in life. Pleasure keeps us sane, happy, motivated. They keep life interesting, add sparkle to it, remind us what we’re here for, what we work for. If you find a way that works and start saving, you’ll always have enough money for regular pleasures and won’t look cheap in the eyes of your companion, courtesan, mistress, or masseusewhom you now tell that you can’t afford to see her.

After all, wouldn’t it sound cheap to you if someone told you that they couldn’t afford to see you? Wouldn’t you think: ‘OK, so you can’t afford to see me, but you can afford a new car every 3 years, smoking, drinking, and holidays?’ Wouldn’t you think: ‘Heeere we go again! Why do I seem to hear this excuse everywhere?’ Or wouldn’t you think: ‘Well, if you afforded to see me once or several times, you can afford to see me again. Just do what you did when you afforded to see me the last time.’ Or wouldn’t you think: ‘Well, if you can’t afford pleasures in life, you’re sad, and not being able to afford things is just as much of a skill as is being able to afford things?’ How would you feel? Exactly the point!

The best part
is that if you find a way of saving that will allow you to see your favourite courtesan, companion, mistress, or paramour or have regular massages, you’ll train yourself to learn to handle money better in other aspects of life too. How rewarding will that be? What will you be able to afford then?

Men, money, pleasures
Some men are very self-sufficient, others are more motivated by others’ help with saving money for courtesans and other pleasures in life. Are you one of them? Let’s start a conversation.

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Why Having a Companion or Mistress is Healthy for a Man

Companion 4 Older Executives | 09 Mar 2022 - 07:47
Why Having a Companion or Mistress is Healthy for a Man

It might sound far fetched on first hearing. But it’s definitely true – and would make many a woman cringe. Having a companion or mistress is healthy for a man. Here’s why. 

Nature designed men to be promiscuous.
In the world of animals the males of many species impregnate a female, but don’t stay with her for life to raise the young and grow old. The males of some species leave the female immediately after impregnation and never come back. Males of other species openly mate with all the females in their herd. Men and males were put on this planet to further the species. In the world of modern humans this principle translates into several ways. 1. men who choose to stay with one woman all their lives seek variety in affairs with courtesans, paramours, or mistresses. 2. men leave the impregnated woman as soon as she announces pregnancy. 3. men go through several partnerships or marriages in life. Some men do it all: they have wives, girlfriends, lovers, and still even pay for sex.

But this male promiscuity is perfectly natural and healthy for their sex lives.
And women who refuse to accept this fact delude themselves. I don’t need the results of studies to tell me that staying with one sexual partner for life kills the magic of sex. It does, because good sex usually comprises unpredictability – an ingredient that inevitably evaporates over time when we have sex with one person all the time. To keep the magic in any relationship it’s important to have variety and a happy mental environment.

Therefore if a man has a companion, mistress, paramour, or lover while staying with one stable sexual partner, he makes a balancing act. An inevitable compromise that adds to his mental health. And look at the fact that in some cultures a man can have several wives. This is also an expression of this balancing act. Women are wired differently and usually prefer the opposite – one sexual partner for life. Hence women don’t need this balancing act. But men do.

Having a companion or mistress enriches.
Another reason why male promiscuity is healthy is that sex with different women will inevitably be different. This can inspire new practices that the man can take to his stable sexual partner and spice up his sex life with. And this will strengthen the quality and happiness of their relationship. If the man is not happy with something – usually money or sex – in his relationship, he will seek to redress the balance. The balancing act of having both a stable partner and a companion, paramour, lover, or mistress gives him healthy mental environment. And, of course, the countless physical health benefits of sex!

Are you a man who stumbled across this article and now wants a companion or mistress? Let’s talk. 

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Why High Class Escorts No Longer Exist

Companion 4 Older Executives | 02 Mar 2022 - 09:58
Why High Class Escorts No Longer Exist

…and hasn’t been for a long time. Where has high class gone? Why? How does a man looking for a courtesan tell who really is of high class? After all, everyone seems to claim to be…

Sliding standards
The concept of high class in companionship has changed. Firstly, the time when the society was clearly divided into classes in many cultures is gone. Now it’s hard to tell who is from what class. So the times when “high class courtesans” earned 10,000 a night are long gone thanks to the societal shift and also oversaturated market and the cost of living. Now even high profilers don’t pay anywhere near that as the cost of their living rises too, and they can get pleasures for far less.

Secondly, a bad habit of the western culture is to pull out the superlatives too early to make things look bigger and better than they are and create commercial hype. This phenomenon applies to absolutely everything in the western society. Thus it also unfavourably reflects itself on the scene of high class companionship.

High class superlatives
Too many women, sadly most of them exactly not of high class, pull out the superlatives untimely and unjustly. Years ago a handful started describing themselves as upscale, exclusive, elite, high class, high end, premier, executive, and whatever else we see on search engines and in their advertising materials, and the rest followed.

Now these terms are everywhere. Just type a search phrase for a courtesan in your city into Google. You’ll get a sea of these terms on the first page of the search results alone. Since less is more, more is also less. Every woman simply cannot be of high class, elite, upscale, or these terms would not mean anything. But since almost every woman now uses these terms to advertise herself, the terms already don’t mean anything! And our society has run out of words for trumping these terms because they are already superlatives! And so all we can do is pile them high on and on.

High class fees
High class needs public image. And public image sells to the right calibre of client. Hence the only ways a companion, escort, courtesan, mistress, paramour, or even prostitute can differentiate herself is by the quality of her presentation and the price point of her fees. Since the image of everything high class is expensive, exorbitant fees do not make the women who charges them high class.

Words and numbers alone don’t make high class.
But piling superlatives high doesn’t make any woman elite, high class, premier, executive, nor any other of those statuses. It’s all in who she is, what she knows, what and how she does, where she goes. Who se associates with. And none of those women will ever tell that to anyone, because high class likes discretion and breach of discretion would result in a fall out of the high class at cosmic speed. So all that these terms are is commercial hype.

Of course all these women fight for the same type of client – the banker, lawyer, medical professional, entrepreneur, educational professional, politician, or corporate boss. But these women forget that this type of client doesn’t pay attention to their elite, upscale, high end terms anymore, because he has seen so many used badly that he stopped paying attention to them long ago.

If you’re looking for a companion or courtesan for yourself,
the best thing I – as a men’s coach – can advise is that you let your intuition guide you. It’s not the superlatives which will make a woman be of high class. It’s the tacit presentation of herself that will whisper to your intuition in what class a woman is. Her public image will tell you whether she suits the executive. The way of expressing herself will reveal how upscale she is. Her thinking, values, actions, and character will speak volumes. And the words that aren’t said will tell you the most. The whole package = her integrity is where the answer lies for you the searching man.

Good luck with the search. And if you think that it ends here or need guidance, let me know.

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Why Aromatherapy Is Effective

Companion 4 Older Executives | 23 Feb 2022 - 08:44
Why Aromatherapy Is Effective

In conversations about aromatherapy I often hear the objection that people don’t trust it to cure their conditions more than they trust commercially prepared medications from pharmacies and health or drug stores. One conversation about the potency of aromatherapy with a longtime loyal recipient of my massages inspired me to share why aromatherapy works and always will work. So here it is: 

Millennia of existence prove its effectiveness
The very fact that aromatherapy has been here far longer than commercially made medicines should serve as a strong testimony. If aromatherapy didn’t work, wouldn’t it go extinct through all civilizations to the modern world of science, knowledge, and information? If ancient civilizations in all parts of the world cured their rich and poor with aromatherapy and there was as much sickness in the world then as there is now, shouldn’t this serve as a testimony that aromatherapy works?

Also, if essential oils are extracted directly from plants rather than chemicals engineered by man, shouldn’t essential oils be better for health and our bodies and sufficiently potent to cure our ailments? If aromatherapy didn’t work, would the Egyptians put its products into the graves of their pharaohs? And could the suppliers of aromatherapy compete charging small fortunes for it in today’s world? After all, they have more than enough competition from pharmaceutical companies…

The active ingredients
Let’s look at why aromatherapy works from another perspective. When you buy a commercially made medicine, the active ingredient, which is highly likely also a manmade chemical, is diluted by default. This is because you have to eat the tablet with the powder that shapes and holds the tablet together, plus colourings and preservatives so that the medicines can sustain long shelf life. Likewise you have to swallow the capsule with the material that encapsulates the active ingredient, colourings, and preservatives. The powder that holds the tablet and the material that encapsulates the capsule will dissolve in your stomach with the active ingredient. Hence the active ingredient will be far less potent. This also explains why you have to take a whole course of some medicines before their effect kicks in.

Essential oils don’t have this problem, because a) you don’t digest them. The skin absorbs them into the blood stream. B) they come in glass bottles, thus don’t contain powders, colourings, nor encapsulating materials to hold them. The glass bottles don’t mix with the active ingredients of essential oils. The glass bottles simply contain the oils. And c) the essential oils are the active ingredients themselves. Thus many cannot be used neat on the skin, because they could irritate it. That’s exactly due to their potency! For this reason an aromatherapist will dilute the essential oils to various intensities in carrier oils. And the carrier oils contain minerals which are also wonderful for the skin. The minerals beautifully complement the concentrated essential oils.

The cost of aromatherapy speaks volumes too…
The small fortunes that you’ll pay for essential oils reflect the fact that you’ll get the pure product [unless the oils are adulterated. But I’m not taking this option into account to clearly put my point across here]. And do you know why some essential oils cost so much? Because people can collect the nature’s gifts from which we extract the essential oils only at limited times of day or night or in limited conditions. And exactly this and other factors make them expensive due to the costs of labour.

But in the long term the effectiveness and kindness of aromatherapy to the body and soul will beautifully even out its cost. And the fact that you can also use aromatherapy at home, at work, and even on animals is also a big plus for justifying its cost. It makes life pleasant and happier. And pleasure and happiness are highly sought after. And will be even more so in future. So is it really that expensive in the long term?

Perhaps this article and others about aromatherapy on this site show that I’m a qualified aromatherapist. I beautifully combine aromatherapy with massages exclusively for older executive, corporate, and professional men. Fancy a massage that you’ll get nowhere else? Let’s talk about it. 

 

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Did You See My Details in a Directory Listing?

Companion 4 Older Executives | 16 Feb 2022 - 07:52
Did You See My Details in a Directory Listing?

Did you find a link to my site in a directory listing? Or better still, did you find my site on a search engine and not in a directory listing? Then I invite you to bear the following in mind: 

The details in a directory listing are not always 100% reliable,
because the construction of each directory site is – inevitably – limiting. Every directory allows an advertiser to put a different [and always limited] amount of information in a listing. 99% of advertisers don’t keep a solid administrative record of where they advertise. That results in them signing up on directories when an invitation to do so lands in their inboxes and then forgetting about their listings. Thus the listing will be visible on the directory, but the information in the listing could be years out of date. Some directories state when the advertiser was last active or logged in. That is a good measure of seeing whether the advertiser looks after her listing on that site. The statistical information that tends to be out of date most often is the advertiser’s age, physical stats, telephone number, email address, and location.

Not all information in directory listings accurately reflects what an advertiser sells
If I want to even create a directory listing, I must fill in at least some of its fields. These fields often portray me as what I’m not. Example: breast size or whether my Mount Pleasant is trimmed, shaven, or natural. How does that information matter if the person sells time, not sex? Yet if I don’t fill these details in, I won’t be able to even create it. And the point of me advertising on directories is to increase my visibility on the worldwide web. Visibility is important, because I can have the best website, concept, mission, vision, and purpose in the world, but it’s useless if no one finds it.

Pictures aren’t everything.
They’re merely the hook. The tip of the iceberg is always the advertiser’s official website. The pictures are the vehicle that connects you to the advertiser’s listing. But if you call the advertiser without reading the info on her official site, you could also be hooking on to a picture that’s years out of date – or fake – owing to what I wrote in the first paragraph. It makes common sense to visit the advertiser’s official site to see whether she’s in business. And if she is, you’ll see her hopefully current pictures and far more info there.

Directory owners often abandon the directories.
Directory sites spring up like mushrooms and are abandoned just as quickly. Webmasters often set them up in hope of getting rich quickly. And when they find out that they aren’t getting rich quickly or are even making losses, they abandon them. But a man who visits the directory doesn’t know that. And if the directory doesn’t have a feature that shows when an advertiser was last logged in, you could be looking at a listing on a directory that no one has administered for years.

Another quirk is that even if an advertiser has a solid administrative record of where she advertises, she may still not know about all the sites on which her ad ends up. This is because webmasters often create mirror and sister sites on which they duplicate ads from the directory on which the advertiser had signed up. Webmasters do this for two reasons: 1. to make signing up on the original directory more attractive to advertisers 2. to expand their potential of making money from the sites. If I don’t know that my ad has been duplicated on other sites, I can’t include those sites in my admin record of where I advertise. Hence I can’t look after those duplicate ads. So you could again be looking at an ad with years old info….

Another immense benefit of knowing where you saw my directory listing
and reading the listing is that you will come across as an informed man who is making an informed decision about the person with whom he is about to share the finer moments in life. After all, you surf directory listings to hopefully buy human connection of which you clearly don’t have enough in life. So if you show a complete stranger – in this case me – that you know what you’re doing, you’ll establish a solid connection. After all, if I called you and told you where I had seen your ad and why I liked it, wouldn’t it feel much better than if I said that I had no clue where I had seen it? Exactly the point! The connection that you are buying starts from you, because you find me.

And as far as any directory listing of mine goes…
For life I’ll have to accept the dilemma that if I advertise on these directories, men who see my listings will inevitably file me in their minds as another one of the women who sell what they do. Not as a person who doesn’t sell what others do and is far from a commodity. There’s no directory that comes even close to suiting the needs of advertisers of my caliber. But if I don’t advertise on the directories, I can have the most interesting and informative website in the world, but nobody will see it. So it won’t matter. C’est la vie….. and another reason why you should always visit an advertiser’s official site. Not all advertisers are commodities, albeit the standaparts are rare. Nonetheless it always pays for you to be informed and make informed choices, especially in today’s world.

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Aromatherapy for the Corporate Man

Companion 4 Older Executives | 09 Feb 2022 - 08:42
Aromatherapy for the Corporate Man

Corporate life has taken and will continue to take it out of many a man. Aromatherapy – the application of essential oils and their blends – is an easily available, ecological, kinder to the body than synthetic drugs, immensely effective, and (considering that you need very small amounts) inexpensive solution to keeping a man healthy and productive in the corporate world. If this solution appeals to you, try the tips that resonate with you for the next few months. You’ll certainly feel the difference and may even become an inspiration to your colleagues who eternally swallow pills! 

So how can aromatherapy benefit the corporate man?
Coughs
The best aromatherapy treatment for coughs is inhaling steam, because it will soothe the throat and air passage and loosen excessive mucus. Hence expelling mucus by coughing will become easier. If inhaling steam is not possible, rubbing 2 drops of an essential oil diluted in 10ml of a carrier oil on your throat and chest 3 times a day will pleasantly help. When you are at work, do it in the bathroom where nobody sees. The essential oils of angelica, benzoin, eucalyptus, frankincense, lavender, marjoram, sandalwood, and thyme are great. These oils will also help in burners or diffusers at home, especially at night. Hot lemon drinks and herbal teas will soothe irritation in the throat. A massage of benzoin diluted in 10ml of carrier oil over the throat 3 times a day works great for loss of voice.

Headaches, migraines, head colds
The essential oils of basil, eucalyptus, lavender, peppermint, and rosemary are great here, because they clear the brain and respiratory infections which can jump on us in [especially open plan] offices and on planes. Inhaling steam, cold compresses, or regular massage also work wonders.

Indigestion
can be dispersed with a light massage of the stomach with 2 drops of basil, camomile, lavender, or marjoram diluted in 10ml of a carrier oil. Choose any one of those oils at a time. Again, at work you can do it in the bathroom where nobody sees. Drinking camomile, fennel, or peppermint herbal infusions will speed up relief. These drinks will also make a far more pleasant form of hydration than coffee or all other sweet drinks. And you will add to your sexappeal!

Make your office smell beautifully
Bergamot, clary sage, cypress, eucalyptus, lavender, litsea cubeba, neroli, and petitgrain are excellent deodorants. Drip 3 – 4 drops of any of these essential oils into a small amount of water or carrier oil in a saucer, small container, oil burner, or diffuser, and put it in a safe place on your desk or in the office.

Repel insects
Drip 3-4 drops of any of the essential oils listed below into a small amount of water or carrier oil in a saucer, small container, or oil burner, and keep it on your desk or in a safe place in the office. Change the whole thing every week. Mosquitoes: cinnamon, clove, eucalyptus, geranium, lavender, lemon, rosemary, sage, thyme. Flies: cedarwood, eucalyptus, geranium, melaleuca, patchouli, peppermint, rosemary. Ticks: cedarwood, geranium, melaleuca, peppermint, thyme.

Sore muscles
Camomile, lavender, marjoram, and rosemary are excellent oils for easing pain of muscles when used in baths or massage. Drip 2 – 3 drops of any of these essential oils into your bath and enjoy the experience. And I needn’t stress the pleasant and immense benefits of regular massages for muscles lashed by the demands of the corporate world! Clary sage and jasmine have a relaxing effect on muscles. And black pepper, juniper, and rosemary will also increase muscle tone, thus performance.

Epidemics
3 drops of clove + 3 drops of orange + 3 drops of cinnamon in a small amount of water or carrier oil = a wonderful blend to put into an oil burner or diffuser and let your office be enveloped in a pleasant scent which will also kill the viruses of epidemics in every season. Eucalyptus and ti-tree are also fantastic protectors against epidemics. Clove and orange are skin irritants, so do not use them in baths. Baths with any of the oils of lavender, rosemary, ti-tree, or thyme will also highly and pleasantly protect you against infections.

Is aromatherapy practical for the corporate man?
Many a corporate man will inevitably argue that carrying blends in 10ml bottles into the corporate environment isn’t practical. Nor is keeping many a thing on desks that should stay at home. But people do it, because they place high value on having those things take up space in their offices. Hence they are happy to sacrifice the impracticalities. Do you place high value on your health – hence productivity – in the ever more demanding corporate world? Then you’ll surely agree that sacrificing the impracticality of carrying a 10ml bottle will be well worth the reward. Plus you’ll always only carry one blend. I’ve named several oils for treating each issue in order to give you plenty of choice and inspiration.

Are you a corporate man? Do you want aromatherapy to make your working life healthier and more pleasant?
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Why the Commercial Side of a Relationship With a Companion Is Crucial

Companion 4 Older Executives | 02 Feb 2022 - 08:37
Why the Commercial Side of a Relationship With a Companion Is Crucial

Most men want to spend their finer moments with intelligent, smart, sophisticated women with perfect bodies, flawless skin, immaculate presentation, and no faults. But they wince at the prospect of paying for the privilege. They argue that the commercial side of the relationship makes them feel uncomfortable. Well, most men don’t know what they want until someone shows them. This article will show you why the commercial side of your relationship with a companion, courtesan, or mistress is crucial. 

It is crucial for 3 reasons:

The commercial side will be there one way or another
The money that you pay for a companion’s time is exactly the same as the money you pay a prostitute for sex or a salesperson for a house, car, or milk. Money is energy. Exchanging money for something that you want = exchanging positive energy. The act of paying shows gratitude, appreciation, that you value what or who you’re paying for. You’re supporting the product, service, or person to stay in business. Thus you give yourself more of what you want and make your world a better place.

When you pay for a product or service, you support the business in evolving and improving. When you pay a person (such as a companion, courtesan, or mistress), you help the person to pay for her food, shelter, clothes, traveling – the basics of life so that she can contribute value to your life. It’s the same as giving money to charity. The only difference is that if you pay a companion, courtesan, or mistress, you know exactly where your money goes, while if you “give” money to a charity, you’ll never know where your money will go.

Boundaries
The money that you pay a companion, courtesan, or mistress acts as a clear boundary of your relationship. Boundaries are necessary. Fences make good neighbours. Every world-famous coachadvises that people set clear boundaries in every professional and personal relationship. Every person needs a home – their little patch on earth. A home has walls, windows, and doors which denote clear boundaries. Why do we lock doors, windows, and pull curtains even in buildings with 24-hour security? Because we want to fortify our boundaries. We live in apartments because we want to be apart… Many men who wish to spend their finer moments with intelligent, smart, sophisticated women with perfect bodies, flawless skin, immaculate presentation, and no faults have wives or partners. And so are many of the women. So the commercial side is critical as a boundary that clearly denotes the relationship.

Independence
If a man dates a companion or mistress, the money that he pays her resolves his conflict between maintaining independence in life and submitting to her commands. Of course, points 1 and 2 apply here too. And they also beautifully complement each other.

A different perspective on the commercial side can make all the difference
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Cultural Differences in Men’s Understanding of Companionship

Companion 4 Older Executives | 27 Jan 2022 - 09:23
Cultural Differences in Men’s Understanding of Companionship

Different folks, different strokes. Those of you who travel a lot or live abroad know this adage well. It applies to every aspect of life. And high end companionship is no exception. How do men from different cultures understand the concept of high end companionship? And how do cultural differences reflect in men’s understanding of high end companionship?

The concept of companionship
as a formalized activity of entertainment hails from the U.S. American men therefore generally understand it as what it is – the company of another person. Whether the company of another person will include intimacy is not the main interest of the American man who seeks company. He wants to spend time with a person with whom he can connect, talk, and do things. And if intimacy happens, it can only be a pleasant bonus. Of course, no man will say no to intimacy if the opportunity arises. But the American man will not protest against paying for companionship without intimacy as long as he feels that he will connect with the person.

Canadian men’s
main interest is generally the same. And since Canada is the USA’s neighbour, it is hardly surprising that the cultural differences are small. Of course, Canada is between the U.S. and Britain, so more and more Canadian men secretly expect that intimacy will be involved. But it still isn’t thei focus in seeking high end companionship. So if intimacy isn’t involved, they generally don’t protest.

Contrastingly, the cultural differences of British men’s understanding of companionship
are marked. British men understand companionship as prostitution. Interestingly, even British born men who have lived abroad – even the USA or Canada – for decades still harbour this understanding. Perhaps they do so as if to reflect loyalties to their country of birth.:) British men place little value on the company of another person. They rather boldly ask first about what sexual services they will get for his money. British men see the value of another person’s company, conversation, and presence for sharing experiences as a waste of money. Why pay a companion when they can do those things with friends? The free interchange of companionship with prostitution is also easy to see in British films. Many films feature prostitutes as leading or important characters.

Men from some other countries of the former British empire
understand high end companionship the same way as British men, but will do their best to mask it.:) India is a good example of these countries.

Scandinavian and Continental men
understand companionship the same way as do British men. They have Germany’s influence on all things sexual to thank for that.:)

Men from the Middle Eastern countries
understand the concept of companionship similarly to British men. But due to their cultures restrictive of everything sexual there’s no wonder that they seek the forbidden fruits of sweet sexual delights in western countries. Isn’t that understandable?

Japanese and Malaysian men
understand companionship similarly to the Americans and Canadians, though with an even greater respect for and interest in their companions. 

Australian men
understand the concept of companionship the same way as the Brits, but add far more of a party spirit. They go into their moments with a companion with the attitude of celebration, not desperation. After all, even prostitution is legal in Australia… So if they don’t make a big deal of prostitution, why should they make a big deal about companionship?

And to complete the trip around the world,
Latinos understand high end companionship more like the Brits, though apply a different kind of party spirit. That of worry-free, pot-smoking relaxation in the sun by the sea with music, drinks, or sensual dance… and intimacy if they can get it.:)

Yet the cultural differences of men’s understanding of companionship
stem from a simple fact. Companionship is not the same thing as prostitution. A prostitute sells sex. A companion sells time and company and operates only in the high end of the market. Women who sell sex, operate in the lower rungs of the market, and advertise as companions to mask selling sex call themselves escorts. Yet even this is confusing, because escort means the same thing as companion. But prostitutes hijacked the term escort because to be an escort is legal, but to be a prostitute is not legal everywhere.

It is clear that the British influence is strong here. That’s hardly surprising, as history has a lot to say for it. And we make history. So if these cultural differences in understanding companionship change over the years of my lifetime, I’ll update this article. Just like I update all articles on my blog as something of value to add to them comes to mind. In the meantime if you can add to this account of the cultural differences in men’s understanding of companionship or want company, let’s talk.

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When a Man Should Not Have Massage
04 Jan 2022
When a Man Should Not Have Massage

Although massage is generally enormously beneficial and certainly a great pleasure when done well, there are occasions when you should not have it. What are those occasions? <...
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Would You Sleep Without Me?

Companion 4 Older Executives | 19 Jan 2022 - 10:45
Would You Sleep Without Me?

Would you sleep without me? Sleeping with me would keep you awake! And keeping awake is what people in today’s at least western society certainly do way too much of – to the cost of their health, productivity, and quality of life. Do you sleep enough? Or do you cast this beautiful gift down the priorities list?

This society lives in constant sleep deprivation.
And getting it to sleep more requires serious work. Paradoxically, even though people are sufficiently educated about the adverse effects of sleeping too little, most don’t seem to notice… And when things start going wrong with them, most hardly look for the cause in not sleeping enough.

Sleep deprivation signals to us by making us feel burnt out.
There’re people who think that burnout is essential for achievement and success. And as man is excellent at adapting, those people get so used to burnout that they’re not aware that they’re exhausted. That makes being tired the new norm. Some people view sleep as boring. Hence to them sleeping little is an act of pride – they say ‘we don’t need to sleep!’. But there’s huge economic cost to not sleeping enough. We think that we sacrifice sleeping for productivity, but we lose productivity to sickness, weakness, health risks listed below, and poorer mental capacity. People’s addiction to technology doesn’t help either – people find it harder to pick a time to disconnect and go to sleep,

But we’re not machines – we cannot minimize downtime.
Most of us need 7 to 9 hours of sleep. Everyone has an optimal length of sleeping time. Transition to sleep also affects its quality. If we wake up at night, there’s no need to stress about it. Segmented sleep is absolutely normal. But if we don’t slow our brains down before sleeping, they will activate immediately on waking up. If you wake up at night, ground yourself on your feet, have a drink of water, and do not go to technological devices nor any other work. Enjoy the calmness of the night and the fact that you have time to relax and meditate with no limit.

If you don’t start sleeping enough, you may:
be susceptible to virueses
be susceptible to inflammation
get Alzheimer’s – the lymphatic system of our brains functions best in sleep = toxins are washed away. No sleep = toxins accumulate in braincells = toxic buildup is associated with Alzheimer’s
get fat. Lack of sleep affects fat control. Sleep deprived people set the alarm to go to the gym = the worst thing they can do, because a sleep deprived body releases hormones that crave sugar and carbs – the things we don’t want to eat a lot of when maintaining low body fat. Keep sleeping and exercise in equal balance.
get diabetes – connected to obesity
get stress – hypertension – heart disease
not be able to process simple info
get outbursts of anger
get mood swings
have a problem getting your joystick to rise to the occasion.
Many corporate executives don’t sleep enough
due to their workload, addiction to technological devices, and desire to play as hard as they work. But the trend is – slowly – changing. Many CEOs say that they need 8 hours to be the most effective. Airlines and the hotel industry compete who gives the best sleeping experience. The U.S. and NZ allow advertising sleeping aids which keep us awake while sleep deprived and do things we don’t fully or at all know we do… How sick is that? Chronic use of sleeping pills damages health. Nature certainly didn’t design the human body to eat pills of chemicals.

Every man can dramatically improve
his health, productivity, and quality of life by this simple resource freely available to all of us – sleep. Change your mindset about it, then change your habits.

Sleep in a dark room. Darkness makes the body excrete melatonin essential for its repair.
Sleep in a quiet room. Silence soothes and heals.
Don’t have electronic devices in the sleeping room. They emit electromagnetic waves which are bad for us and our energy fields.
Clear your energy field before sleeping – it will help you fall asleep and sleep better.
Don’t read books, watch TV, nor use mobile devices in bed. If you do, you confuse the brain: it knows that it’s in bed, thus thinks it should go to sleep, yet you’re making it concentrate. Therefore the brain finds it hard to slow down and switch off.
Use your bed only for making love and sleeping. Create a sleeping ritual – it will set a marking line for the brain between day and night.
If you haven’t slept well, nap during the day asap. It will help you recharge.
Start sleeping enough
– be happier, more focused, calmer, more productive, healthier, thinner, more attractive, more grounded, emotionally stable, more fun to be around. Some good coaching can start you on this track. Would you like to talk about it?

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When Men Have unrealistic Expectations of Escorts, Courtesans, Companions...

Companion 4 Older Executives | 11 Jan 2022 - 10:11
When Men Have unrealistic Expectations of Escorts, Courtesans, Companions...

One of the prevalent reasons why I send nine out of ten men who approach me elsewhere is that I quickly discover that our union would highly likely end in a disaster because of their unrealistic expectations. Here I list the most common unrealistic expectations that I’ve come across. I do it so that if you have them you can work them out before hiring your next companion or “escort”. [Yes, in today’s world these two words certainly have a different meaning. Hence escort is in inverted commas.]. 

The 3 most common unrealistic expectations are:
1. Companion, partner, or wife?
If you’re looking for a partner or wife, don’t surf sites of companions or “escorts”. Albeit a life partnership with a companion or woman in other roles can develop in one in a million cases, it’s not realistic to expect that it will happen to you. Plus you’ll be wasting time, because you’ll be looking for the wrong things in the wrong places. If you go into a relationship with a companion with the mindset of looking for a partner / wife, your mindset and outlook will be incompatible from the start. And that will bring bad vibes between you and the woman you approach. 99% of companions are in it for the money and you need to be realistic about that. Taking a second perspective may help. If you sold your time or body, would you welcome someone approaching you with the mindset of getting it for nothing?

2. I can’t afford a whole night…
So you’d normally see her for a few hours and tell her how much you’d like to spend a night with her. But you can’t afford the whole night? You’ll do better if you keep that fact to yourself. 1. it cheapens your image. Claiming poverty sounds unbelievable from a man who has money for seeing companions. 2. You’re making yourself sound unrealistic right away. Actions speak louder than words. And people are consistent in their actions. If you normally see her for a few hours, the likelihood that you’ll see her for a night is low. You’re not that extreme! So say what you mean. And say things that are realistic if you don’t want to sound ridiculous and erode the dynamic in your relationship with her.

3. I want someone nice, but can’t really afford you…
Realize that if you pay peanuts, you’ll get monkeys – you won’t get nice for next to nothing. Cheap is cheap for good reasons. Good isn’t cheap. Also bear in mind that even if you can afford higher fees, there’s equally no guarantee that women who charge them will be nice. The world doesn’t work that way. Your best bet is to do your research, apply your intuition, and evaluate whether stretching to x more money will be a welcome investment if your intuition tells you that the owner of the website captures your interest.

The saddest thing about unrealistic expectations
usually is that if men have them in one area of life, they’ll also have them in other areas of life. As I said above, people are consistent in their actions. But there is always a solution – if we care to find it. Getting some good coaching is one. And it will also help you in many other areas of life. Hence I’ll be happy to help – without stigma and embarrassment for you if you decide to get it!

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