To find a companion can be as exhausting as dating, and perhaps even more so. This is because the prevailing attitude is that because you’re paying, you expect to get the perfect person and experience and the person whom you pay will be perfect on demand. If the person and experience do not turn out to be perfect, isn’t that upsetting? So how can you, the searching man, shorten the costly process of trial and error? And how can you learn to prevent getting it wrong more times than getting it right? 

When you go shopping 
for any high cost item, such as a car, house, yacht, or jet, you won’t buy the first one you find without looking at the specs. You’ll know what features you want the item to have. You’ll then do thorough research and certainly question the salesman accordingly. So why not apply the same principle to find a companion for your special moments? A companion can cost just as much as cars, houses, yachts, or jets in the long term. And if a man buys an item with specs that make the item right for him, it makes sense to apply the same principle to find a companion. Isn’t the interpersonal dynamic just as important, especially if a man wishes to get intimate with his companion?

Acting on impulse can be dangerous
I often wonder how men can be courageous enough to make their choices based solely on instinctual impulse rather than on a combination of instinct and informed decision in this age of scams, conartistry, and ripoff worldwide in every sphere of life – especially in that of companionship! If I were to look for any item, I’d definitely read the ad, product description, and do thorough research on the service and its sellers.

But the vast majority of men doesn’t pay attention to what women say about themselves in directory listings and on their websites. This lack of attention can be even more insidious, because if a man doesn’t care about who he goes with, he can get into dangerous situations. After all, you don’t know who you’re about to engage with! Is she an addict to something? Is she trafficked? Does she even know that her ad is on the listing where you saw it? Or has her pimp listed her without her knowledge? Do you want to finance human trafficking?

How can men find a companion instead of a disaster?
NEVER assume from experience that every companion’s website has empty promises. A handful are very informative and written with the essence of this article in mind! The challenge is to find them.
Always be present in the moment when you find a directory listing you like. Sharpen your senses, focus on the listing, and read what it states when you’ve finished admiring the pictures. Then evaluate the information and start asking for additional information.
Write things down. Visual information is the most reliable!
Find a companion and stick with her
The benefit = you’ll be able to choose exactly who and what you want and what and why you don’t. Happy searching! Practise on my website – and you can always let me know how you got on!

If men need to improve their intimate life, it’s clear feedback reflecting something they’ve been doing to this moment. The quality of a man’s intimate life won’t improve unless he acts to improve it. Placing the responsibility of improving it on others won’t get any man anywhere either. So no excuse – one has to work to reap rewards. Here’re 19 ways to do so. Your doctor won’t tell you them and they don’t cost anything. So try them – you’ll lose nothing and gain plenty!

1. If you are feeling miserably or depressed, 
check your eye line. Where are you looking? If you’re looking down which is where your feelings are, hold your head level and raise your eyes to the sky. Things will be looking up, so you will lose many negative emotions, and may even start to laugh! Hence it’s the cheapest and healthiest form of antidepressants and certainly worth a try. 

2. If you are annoyed, upset, triggered by a bad experience,
think ‘what can I learn from it’? It will certainly be something positive. And if you really learn it, you may not have to experience the same or similar bad event again. Instead you will restart the learning.

3. If you have a thousand things going through the head
at once, imagine the soles of your feet growing roots like a tree. Let all that stuff drain off into the earth. With a little practice you will feel relief in your head. 

4. If you believe that you can do something
or likewise if you believe that you can’t, you will be right either way. What you believe you will achieve! So choose carefully. 

5. Do you often get headaches? 
Sit quietly and ask the headache what it is trying to tell you. The message is often very simple: water, fresh air, less panic. Hence think how you can help yourself and notice what happens to the headache. Regular head massage will help you prevent more headaches.

6. Grounding – another way for men to improve intimate life
Backache in the base of the spine and buttocks is a particularly common place to feel pain when you are not grounded. Sit upright in a chair and imagine the pain descending through the chair into the ground and down into the the earth. If you can let go of it like this, it isn’t anything more serious. And regular massage is also magical in the long term!

7. Use your imagination 
for all the great things you will do this week, month, season, year. Get clear pictures, sounds, and feelings together to really focus you on success. Men do this exceptionally well in the context of sex. 

8. Work and socialise with people
who inspire you, whom you have fun with and respect for. Because life is too short not to do so.

9. Men with open minds improve intimate life by far
Minds are like parachutes – they only function when they are open. And the fear of something is far worse than the thing itself.

10. How loud is your inner critic?
You can spend so long beating yourself up after making a mistake and feeling terribly about it that you don’t have the energy to step back, learn from it, and move on. However bad the situation, there is always learning which you can draw from it.

11. If an event distresses you,
clear the energy from this memory. It really works. Clearing your energy for just 10 minutes a day will change your life. And if you don’t know how to clear the energy, ask me. 

12. Men who notice successes improve their intimate life
So notice successes instead of glossing over them. Start noticing what works, congratulate yourself, and see how you can do more. This will attract more success.

13. Successful Olympians
don’t think about the goal, only about the process they need to follow to get there. For some of the most successful ones the medal comes as almost a surprise. This may also have an impact on traditional goal setting! Even for men who don’t like setting goals. Those men will definitely be interested only in the process of getting to success.

14. Have you missed the sunshine for a long time
and not had the usual fill of energy? You may well be right, but everyone can make the most of whatever sunshine there is. Don’t damage your skin. Just remember that a solar panel keeps going all year, and we could think of ourselves as mobile solar panels. You can use your imagination to see a golden ball of energy drifting down onto the top of your head and feel it filling you up with lovely warmth.

15. Men who smile improve intimate life automatically
and is irresistible! The natural reaction to a smile results in movement of positive energy that replaces the negative pockets holding souls captive. Plus, men who live life with a smile improve their intimate life by half just by smiling itself. They’ll be a delight to be around.

16. When you are ill, 
check out what you are telling yourself. If you keep telling yourself how bad it is, it will stay that bad. Likewise, if you imagine what it will be like when you are healthy and grateful for the tiny improvements you notice, you will certainly get what you imagine.

17. If you can’t sleep,
get up, put your feet firmly on the floor, ground yourself, drink a glass of water, return to bed, and RELAX. Concentrate fully on relaxing every part of your body and mind. Just let it sink into the bed…

18. See what happens 
if you suspend judgement on something. It is just an event, therefore you don’t have to judge whether it is good or bad. It is just something that is happening.

19. Where do you draw energy from? 
Here are 4 environments for different energies: forest, sea, mountain, and desert. Which one energizes you? Is there also one that drains your energy? Which ones resonate with you? There are also subenergies, e.g. the river, the lake, the waterfall to the sea.

The forest is full of life. Trees are some of the greatest spiritual living energies on the planet. The forest is safe and encompassing. It is a shelter, food, and nutrition. The forest breathes as we breathe. It is a connected and also fragile place. Trees are very grounded deeply into the soil to offer great stability.

The sea is constant flow. Movement and stillness, yin and yang, turmoil and peace. The sea has an ambience. On the surface it looks like nothing is happening. Beneath the surface there is teeming life.

The mountains represent strength. They are very old. They have endured much of what has happened on this planet. The tops of mountains are places of great wind, vision, and inspiration. You can see from them for miles and people meditate on tops of mountains for long periods of time.

The desert is empty, yet full of life. The desert is space, it is clear. It certainly has life, but you have to search for it. You can survive because the resources are everywhere. The desert is clear air.

Place yourself in your favourite energy and give yourself the time to absorb everything that the energy delivers to you. Climb a mountain, walk in a forest, swim in a sea, or walk in a desert (at least in your mind). You will receive the advice or resources you need. They might even lead you to me!

All men can improve their intimate life
Some can do it alone, others with a little help of someone with more different perspectives. That’s how I add value to men’s lives. And that’s how I can add value to yours. And that’s how you will add value to your relationships. Would you like me to? Tell me how.

Most men who respond to massage ads still think and hope that they respond to ads for sex. Unfortunately in 95% of cases it is so, which makes the work of a genuine masseuse harder. Many men think that artificial sex with strangers is more rewarding than well done massage because those men don’t appreciate the importance and benefits of real massage. This may be due to social conditioning and the impact of the euphemism for unrelated activities that the word massage has unfortunately become. So here are the tremendous benefits and unassuming, understated, powerful intimacy of the beautiful art of massage. 

Massage is one of the most powerful forms 
of physical contact in the context of intimacy or therapy. If massage combines with essential oils, it is by far the most important application in aromatherapy. This is the case because it allies the therapeutic power of touch with the properties of the essential oils chosen for a particular person at a specific time.

Massage with or without essential oils formalizes a very primitive instinct. When a child falls, his mother will rub his bumped knee. Likewise if we trip over and bruise ourselves, our unthinking first reaction will be to rub the painful area. Similarly, if we find a friend in distress, we’ll offer a reassuring hug. All these are forms of healing, whether on a physical or emotional level. Rubbing a painful part of the body encourages a stronger flow of blood in the tiny capillaries below the surface of the skin. And this helps to ease the pain. A hug is a way of communicating sympathy and love that we may not be able to put into words.

Both kinds of healing enter into massage and sex
The masseuse performs a variety of strokes to relieve pain, ease tight muscles, increase circulation, or benefit the physical body in other ways. She applies the strokes to the muscles visible below the surface of the skin. And their effects also benefit the deeper layers of muscle and the underlying organs. Some forms of massage aim to benefit only the physical body. But a general feeling of wellbeing will result and enhance the degree of relaxation which we will experience after a massage. Renewed energy and vigour will follow this deep relaxation. The benefit of massage is cumulative. The recipient will almost always feel good for several hours after a massage. And regular massage will prolong the feeling of wellbeing for increasing periods after each treatment.

Massage has several profound benefits
Massage can release tight muscles and act as reeducation due to making us aware of unnecessarily tensing certain muscles. It also teaches us to feel the difference between a tight or contracted and relaxed muscle. We often do not realize that we tighten certain muscles until we feel those muscles relaxed during and after a massage. It is perfectly normal to tense muscles when we feel mentally tense. But it is important to be able to let go of this tension before the tight muscles convey discomfort and unease to the mind and set up a vicious circle of tension. This is one way in which mental stress can lead to physical symptoms. Massage can break this circle, especially when we work with essential oils that have a calming, soothing, or uplifting effect on the mind and body.

Some systems of massage
such as the eastern massage and various kinds of intuitive massage developed in the past 40 years take the link between body and mind further. Hence they work mainly on the connection between the mental and physical states of the recipient of massage. Letting go of physical tensions often leads to a release of emotions. This can relate to the person’s present situation or to something that has been stored in the body for a long time. The masseuse and the recipient must build a relationship of deep trust and sympathy before such catharsis can take place. And this building happens over several treatments. One of the ideas inherent in eastern massage is that by gently working on the physical surface tensions deeper tensions will come to the surface and eventually be released.

The variety of massage techniques is enormous. I believe that the technique used doesn’t matter as much as the masseuse’s caring and nurturing attitude to the recipient. And the recipient’s trust in the masseuse.

Massage is vital to aromatherapy
because it provides the most effective way of introducing essential oils to the body. The skin absorbs the oils very readily. When we massage the whole body, a useful amount of essential oil goes into the bloodstream in a short time. The essential oils are diluted in carrier oils. If it isn’t possible to massage the whole body, a back massage offers the best possibility of getting sufficient essential oil into the body for a therapeutic effect. This is because the back presents the single largest expanse of skin on the body.

Massage is better than sex with strangers
because to have sex with a stranger in completely artificial conditions is unnatural. That’s why many men can’t marry paying for it with feeling it and end up feeling empty after it. No one in real life would pull a woman [who doesn’t sell sex] off the street and throw her into the bedroom to have sex on demand. Even people on dating sites and apps who have sex on a first date will have corresponded before they meet. So since sex with a woman who sells it is artificial in unnatural conditions, it’s forced. A massage by a therapist whom you don’t know is far more natural because it’s perfectly socially accepted and doesn’t involve sexual intimacy and embarrassment. It’s not in one’s face. This is why massage, if done well, is far more rewarding than artificial sex.

The benefits of massage vs. artificial sex
go even further. I’ve described the four less obvious ones in this article. Would you like to talk about any of them?

When you fancy a relaxing massage, how do you know which massage to pick before you start researching massage ads? 

Swedish massage 
is the invention of the Swede Pir Henrik Ling. He used his knowledge of physiology to develop a system of treatment that combines massage with physical exercise. This became Swedish massage. Its aim is to restore good health by careful manipulation of muscles and joints.

Manual lymphatic drainage [MLD] 
is the legacy of the Danish therapist Dr. Emil Vodder and his wife Estrid since the 1930s. They discovered that gently palpating and moving the skin certainly stimulated the lymphatic system and improved congestive conditions. Hence they developed a system of treatment of the whole body. Manual lymphatic drainage has many implications from self-help for minor swellings to professional treatment of chronic oedema.

The lymphatic system picks up debris and waste products from the body’s connective tissue. It consists of a series of lymph nodes connected by lymph vessels. The nodes appear in clusters mainly around the neck, armpits, and groin. They contain white blood cells that help to fight infection by filtering out bacteria as the lymph, a watery fluid, passes through the nodes.
Healthy connective tissue nourishes every cell of the body. But when the tissue is congested, nutrition of cells and the flow of waste products to the bloodstream slow down.

When MLD stimulates the lymph system, the stagnation reverses, the body functions more healthily, and the immune system gets stronger.

Chinese massage 
Traditional eastern medicine is based on the belief that life energy flows along channels, or meridians, of the body. In traditional Chinese medicine this energy bears the name of qi. The aim of all treatments, and massage, is to create an unobstructed flow of qi in the body, hence promoting harmony and wellbeing.

There are 12 regular meridians. Each one influences a major organ and its associated functions. Two other meridians trace the midline of the front of the body – Ren (Conception vessel) and the back of the body – Du (Governing vessel). In a healthy person qi is balanced between the opposite but complementary qualities yin and yang. Yin signifies darkness, cold, passivity; yang signifies light, warmth, activity. Yin meridians run along the front of the body, the abdomen, and the inner sides of the arms and legs. Yang meridians run mainly along the back of the body and the outer sides of the arms and legs. A massage will balance the left and right sides, the top and bottom, and the front and back into a cohesive energetic whole.

Indian massage
The major traditional healing systems in India are Ayurveda and Unani. Both systems consider massage a vital part of life, hence a means of preventing illness, improving circulation, and attaining physical and spiritual harmony. According to both systems all living organisms are defined by fluctuating vital energies known as humours. Each humour contains a combination of five essential elements: ether, air, fire, water, earth. The purpose of all therapeutic treatments, and massage, is to bring these life forces into harmony. If the humours are out of balance, the flow of prana, an invisible life energy that enters the body through food and breath, will also be disrupted.

Most Indian massage includes work on pressure points. There’re said to be 107 points on the body. Stimulating these points with various massage techniques is believed to affect the body’s internal organs and systems. This concept is similar to that of Thai massage and shiatsu.

Thai massage
Good health depends on a balanced flow of life energy called prana through an invisible network of channels in the body. These channels are called sen lines and are similar to the Chinese meridians. Ten out of 72,000 sen lines in the body are the most important in Thai massage.
A Thai masseur tries to achieve perfect energy balancing by stretching the sen lines. He uses the hands, feet, and elbows to apply pressure to key points along them. The belief is that the physical body is the vehicle through which we can reach the emotional or psychic body. The masseur traditionally performs the massage in a meditative mood. He begins with a prayer and works with full awareness and mindfulness.

Eastern head massage
is immensely popular throughout the East. In India, China, Singapore, and Turkey most barbers and hairdressers will automatically offer a scalp massage. The word shampoo derives from the Hindi word capna, meaning ‘to press’ or ‘rub’. This ten-minute massage is quite energetic and done on dry hair to avoid stretching the hair.

Shiatsu
literally translates as ‘finger pressure’. This massage evolved in Japan and has origins in traditional Chinese medicine. It is based on the eastern principle that energy of life (ki in Japanese, qi in Chinese) flows through longitudinal meridians in the body. The aim is to apply pressure along these meridians to influence the flow of ki and therefore maintain harmony and good health.

Reflexology
is another massage based on the theory that applying pressure to specific areas of the feet and less commonly hands and ears can affect internal organs and bodily systems and therefore promote good health. It evolved from the work of an American ear/nose/throat surgeon Dr. William H. Fitzgerald. He was interested in the theory of energy lines, or meridians, and developed zone therapy around 1913. A reflexology treatment is usually immensely relaxing. Not only do most people enjoy having their feet massaged, but stimulating the extensive nerve endings in the feet is also beneficial in itself and can have profound effects throughout the body.

Sarawak Massage
is a sequence of gentle kneading movements designed to send waves of relaxation through the body.

Moroccan massage
of the full body can last just 15 minutes and consists mainly of fast stroking. The vigour of the strokes forces the body and mind to let go and is therefore useful for revitalizing rushed and also hyperactive people.

I’m certainly qualified in and offer all the treatments which I described here. Would you like to talk about them?

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